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Seductive Surprises - 3 min read • Dec 30, 2020
How sex & surprise are connected
I've always been the type of person who likes surprises. The curiosity stirring up inside of me. The feeling of anticipation and the build up. I've also always been a person who likes sex. The pleasure, the release & the act of self expression. That's exactly why I wanted to create Seductive Surprises. I had of vision of creating a space that connects the elements of sex and surprise to achieve a fulfilling & empowering sex life.
You may be asking yourself how sex and surprise are connected. I believe it can be the key for any individual to unlock their deepest desires. It provides us an access to fantasy and arousal. It allows us the opportunity to be playful and explorative. When we are able to be sexually expressive, whether with our partners or by ourselves, we are more connected to our inner selves. We are in a judgement free space where we can be whomever we want to be.
True sexual fulfillment is a connection of mind, body & soul. It is my mission for all of my clients to experience this sex connection. To reach a place of understanding & acceptance that allows your mind to fantasize. To reach a place of awareness that allows your body to embrace pleasure. To reach a state of love in your heart that allows your soul to connect the pieces. My goal is to encourage everyone to look inward when they think about sex. Ask yourself, am I happy with my sex life? Do I give my desires a voice? Do I have desires? What are they? Am I comfortable with my body? Am I honest with myself? Am I honest with my partner?
Trust me when I say that fulfilling sex can change your life. The ability to empower your pleasure, communicate your fantasies and let go of shame will bring you to new heights. Sex is supposed to be fun. It should be explorative and it should be enjoyable for all parties involved. The misconception here is that sex is only with a partner. Self pleasure is sex too, and honestly, where it all begins. Understanding your body and learning it's sweet spots. Allowing yourself the freedom to be turned on by what arouses you. Discovering who you are in the bedroom. This is all normal, and not something that needs to be shamed or taboo.
I've created a space that is safe to explore, in a discreet and tasteful manner. I'm not going to give you tips on how to give the best deepthroat, or how to make yourself orgasm 10 times in a row. What I will do, is give you the tools to play and discover on your own, at your own pace and your own comfort level. By intertwining surprise into your sex life, it creates a sense of suspense & mystery. These things let your imagination run wild. With your imagination in active mode, you become more open to fantasy. My belief is that fantasy and desire are cultivated. We don't always give these things a voice, but the reality is our bodies will give us the cues. It will let us know what arouses us, what intrigues us and what simply doesn't.
So allow yourself to be sexually expressive, allow yourself to be free of judgement and let Seductive Surprises help you on your way!
M
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